Friday, February 10, 2012

Back to Korea

David wasn't going to publish this but I like it so much, I am going to do this anyways.
         Much Love, Lisa

Our feet ache and our eyes grow heavy as our luggage releases its grip from our backs.  We sit in a second story coffee shop looking through the window waiting for time to pass.  I see a clock whose red numbers read 20:41.  Opposite our coffee shop a storm of people rush from outside through a single open door.  The other three sets of doors stand shut, but willing to open at the slightest nudge.  The heard of people dont see the closed doors as an option.  I watch as anger and impatience engross their faces.  The cold air makes their pulsing breaths appear as a steam train gaining momentum.  Above the crowd is a 60 foot yellow poster adorned with black and red letters informing us of our civic duties to invest in the local economy.  The informative posters are mimicked by three slightly smaller copies hanging throughout the train station.  Not to be outdone, a 40 foot television screen separates the posters.  It is broadcasting the opposing companys products. 

             As I look down, a second wave of dense population begins their procession into the building.  They are lining up and steaming in through the single set of doors just as before.  In our coffee shop my senses are bombarded with my adjacent surroundings.  The smell of garlic and decaying vegetables is only lightly masked with the aroma of black coffee.  The voices are foreign and speaking a language that my mind cannot decipher.  Either this language is too complex and unique that it escapes my understanding or it is an ancient language and too distant from my own to allow me to relate the two.  For now, the clicks and groans sound as if a group of squirrels are reviewing their daily regimen.  

            The room is only slightly heated compared to the near zero temperatures of the hallway.  It allows for the removal of gloves, but that is as far as we are willing to compromise.  Our jackets and hats stay firmly attached to our bodies.  The only reminder of home is a faint sound of english music playing in the coffee shop.  The song and artist is unknown but is reminiscent of bad 90s pop.  I cant help but imagine a smoky stage with a lonely, big-haired woman belting out her obtrusive love ballad.  The words and imagery are easily ignored as I look back towards the window.  I stare at the clock without reading the time. 

             I feel as though ten minutes pass before I decide to scan the room for some sense of entertainment.  My eyes are growing even heavier as every person appears to be a clone of the last, all identical in shape, features, and expressions.  The room spins in my head as I turn back around to see the clones have taken over the coffee shop.  I shake the visions free and slowly began to notice the tiny flaws in the carbon copies.  She has a wide nose.  His hair has been tinted a dark brown.  I go on bringing each character to life in the coffee shop until I notice a very small man sitting at a table alone.  I cant help but release a horribly inappropriate laugh.  My wife looks forward and mumbles the first word either of us had said since arriving, What?  

Either I am REALLY tired or I just saw a midget. I say.  

She joins me with another inappropriate laugh followed by a light hearted scolding, You are terrible.  

We both release a deep sigh as I look back out the window to the red clock.  20:42 It is going to be a long night.

Changed our minds... We went to Hawaii

Instead of going to Thailand like we planned, which I am sure would have been very cool, we went to Hawaii. We decided on Hawaii, partly because the tickets where almost the same price, partly because I have a friend who lives in Hawaii who we could stay with, partly so we didn't have to worry so much about what I ate and partly because we needed a little America but wanted some where tropical. And let me say it was the perfect vacation. Great food, great weather, great people and an over all great time. As soon as we were on the plane headed back to Korea, I wished we could go back. So maybe I can convince my family to take our family vacation there!!


Here are a few pictures of our trip. 
First morning. Looking out from Andrew's house in  North Shore.


Sunset beach. 





My friend Andrew who was so kind to let us stay with him, use his house, car and show us around.

Looking down from the top of Koko Head. 

At Haliewa Farmer's Market. 
Andrew getting our paddle boards ready. 
Paddle boarding.

It seems like every time I go to the beach,
I take a picture of a child playing in the sand. But they are just too cute. 




At Pearl Harbor. Submarine. 


USS Missouri in the distance.
Remains of the USS Arizona in the foreground. 


This is at Sharks Cove where we went snorkeling. 


David snorkeling.





Bomb fire on the beach and s'mores. Can't get much better!

My surf lesson. 

Paddling out. 

Got up on almost every wave I caught. 

Hiking up to Monoa Falls. 

Us at Monoa Falls. 

Out at the point. The end of North Shore. Also our last day. 
We had an amazing time. We have been so blessed to have this experience! Also we are indebted to Andrew, who kindly let us stay with him, we could not have done it with out him. I can't wait to go back again. 

I hope you enjoyed the picture. Thank you to everyone who has supported us over the last year with packages and pray. We appreciate it beyond words!

Much love, Lisa

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

One Year

We have now finished our first year anniversary in Korea. Crazy how fast this year has gone by. We will now be starting our last 5 months here. If everything goes as planned we will be going back to America the first week in July to start another chapter in our marriage.

South Korea... A year later. I remember coming here so excited about the adventure we were about to have. I remember being excited about the culture, the food and well everything. However, our experience has not completely lived up to our expectations. I guess that's were we went wrong. We had expectations.  Don't get me wrong, we have done a lot, we have seen a lot and we have grow incredibly in our marriage (who wouldn't when it's just the 2 of you) but I can't say that we have loved every minute of our time here.  



When people ask how we like it here, sometimes I have a hard time thinking of something to say. David on the other hand does a good job of thinking of something positive to say. For me, (remember this is my experience and some people come to Korea and absolutely love it here), the culture is the hardest. It is so vastly different from anything I have ever experienced before. I like to say I am well traveled and that I have seen and experienced many different cultures before coming here. However, I have never been in another culture for more than 2 months. It really takes 6 months to understand and feel comfortable in the new culture. A lot of people here go through the 6 month slump, where you hate everything and want to leave as soon as your contract is over. For me, this happened after 3 months and lasted until month 9. But, my slump was largely caused by eating gluten, which throws off my whole system and makes it very hard for me to manage my emotions. 



Life here hasn't been a piece of cake. We knew it wouldn't be but at times it is harder than we ever could have imagined it to be. But, I guess you don't grow as a person when you have it easy. The best way to build muscle is to work them until they hurt and that's what Korea is doing to us. 



If you have followed our blog, you know how David struggled with the idea of missionary work here and being content with being a teacher. I have struggled immensely not only with my Celiac Disease but with what we are here to learn. I feel like if this is hard then we are supposed to be gaining something from this experience. There are a few things that I have realized. Mostly to do with my family, who I have often taken for granite. But over, I still don't know how this experience is supposed to make me a better person.


This blog entry isn't meant to make you feel sorry for us (unless it makes you want to send me gluten free food :) ), this is just meant to give you a more accurate picture of life in Korea. I have steered away from write anything negative about living here because I didn't want people to feel sorry or look poorly on Korea if they wanted to come here. Like I said some people come here and love everything about the country but that's just not us. And there days, sometimes weeks when all we want to do is to be able to breath. Literally (the air quality is horrible) and figuratively (feel comfortable where we are). We have yet to feel like we belong here, not sure if we ever will because of the way we look. I feel like everything is temporary, especially everything in our apartment. Either it is not ours or we have to keep it in good condition so we can sell it when we leave. I am ready to real grounded again and no longer confused all the time. 


We would greatly appreciate it if you would pray for us over the next few months. Pray for greater understanding, compassion, patience, and over all health. I don't want to leave Korea with the same attitude I have now. I would like to be grateful for our experience here. So please pray!!!


Much Love, 


Lisa